No interest in dating anymore
My friends all seem to think that since I’m not getting laid that I must be dying inside. I was a virgin until I was 20, and even then it was something sporadic until I was in a relationship with my ex.That’s not to say that I don’t miss being intimate with someone, because I mean, hello, I’m human. I’m not going to sign up for Tinder to please my pals.But it’s something that I can’t worry about right now. One of the best things that has come out of being single is how much I’ve been able to focus on my career.It has really paid off, literally and figuratively, and that has been invaluable for me as a single mom.My son would be crushed and likely wouldn’t understand why this person wasn’t in his life anymore.He doesn’t have a close relationship with his dad since he lives across the country, so he attaches to male role models quickly. I know that it’s close to impossible for me to find that But what about sex? It may sound crazy, and of course, it’s not easy, but I know that it will all work itself out when it’s supposed to.Once you’ve identified some communication changes, assess his actions, and then start addressing the issue by talking to him, seeking advice from others, and focusing on yourself.
This article was co-authored by Paul Chernyak, LPC.
If he continues, then it's probably time to find a new relationship as it's unlikely he respects you and a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
I’m a good-looking guy, so I know my looks are not the problem.
Paul Chernyak is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Chicago.
He graduated from the American School of Professional Psychology in 2011.